So, your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life, he tells you he wants to have his second degree, a proper house and a bigger car first. You sit there smiling with just a birth certificate thinking you will be the wife? With the little he has, you ask for brazillian hair and timberland, he goes to work and goes straight to class after work, he leaves you in pyjamas and finds you in the same pyjamas while he studies you watch generations and isibaya.
He comes back home to find pap and chiken in the microwave everyday, the house is clean and his clothes ironed, the only serious conversation you all have is about the typa groceries you guys need.
The only advice u give him is "babe you need to buy new socks, the ones you bought last time are torn" nothing intelligent comes out of your mouth, no plans of making your own life better, yes you are pretty no doubt about that! so is every second girl passing by.
Do you realise something? You not doing anything a maid cant do, he's gonna finish school and the first thing he's gonna do is REPLACE HIS MAID cause he can now afford to pay one and have a PROPER WIFE/ GF.
Thats when we will hear your famous last words "i was with him through thick and thin when he had nothing, now that he is successfull he thinks i am nothing" Yes you are right, you have always been NOTHING but a maid to him. Empower urself to be the woman your man wants to be with a woman who would be able to carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or his health!!!
TRUTH IN PLAIN SIGHT.
Lol Do you all agree?